Mari Kondo has been causing quite a stir among the book community. As I mentioned in my recent Instagram post this isn't because she explicitly said anything bad, but because the internet loves demonising, drama, and self-righteousness. If you've missed this, essentially the KonMari philosophy is all about really thinking about what you want and need in your life, and making a conscious decision to only buy and keep objects that are explicitly necessary, or spark a certain joyful feeling in you.
LIFESTYLE
Thursday, 7 February 2019
DO YOUR BOOKS SPARK JOY?
Monday, 14 January 2019
CRUELTY FREE BEAUTY FAVOURITES #5
For any newcomers to the blog (hi by the way!) I started switching up my makeup collection to all cruelty-free products back in 2017, and I can honestly say I don't regret a thing. I have moments where I wish I could buy a new MAC lipstick, or one of Nars' iconic blushes, but there are so many great cruelty-free bands and products that it's never really a problem.
Today I'm sharing some recent discoveries that I love, and hope to inspire anybody looking to add more cruelty-free goodness to their collection.
Saturday, 24 November 2018
SMALL BUSINESS + SUSTAINABLE GIFT GUIDE // HOMEWARE BOOKS + ART
Following on from the Sustainable Gift Guide that I published last year, I thought I'd curate another little collection of beautiful, sustainable gifts from smaller businesses. I'm hoping I can inspire others to make conscious choices when buying gifts for loved ones over Christmas.
Wednesday, 21 November 2018
A YEAR OF LONG DISTANCE + HOW WE MADE IT WORK
Alex and I have been together for well over a year and a half, and we have never lived within walking distance. When we first met we were a twenty minute train ride away, then I moved to stay with my parents for a few months, pushing that distance to an hour and a half, and then I left for York, moving five hours up the country to do a postgraduate degree.
I realise this sounds like I'm slowly edging further away hoping he'll get the hint, but I was accepted to study at York just before we met, so it was always a factor in our relationship, and it was a real moment of commitment when we decided that, after about five months, we were willing to stay together while I moved across the country for a year. I have since completed my degree and moved south again, and we are now separated by a measly seventy minute drive. Being so far away, both constricted by busy schedules and deadlines, hasn't been easy on us, but we've gotten through this last year with relatively little trouble, and never came close to breaking up. With that in mind I think we're both fairly well equipped to give a little advice, so Alex has helped me put together this little post, what a champ <3
Tuesday, 25 September 2018
FIVE PLANS FOR AUTUMN - WINTER
Well, the sunglasses have finally gone back in their case, we're digging out the thicker duvets and cosy blankets, and the colder weather is here at last! I think on the blogosphere (especially the more insidey, bookish corner) we fetishise Autumn something awful. We get excited about crisp walks and hot chocolate and jumpers and forget about the constant rain and dark mornings and the various bouts of flu we'll all have to deal with.
That said I still love Autumn, and this year especially, the colder weather signals a big change in my life. I've come back down from York to be with my family, friends and boyfriend again, and I'm done with my dissertation and looking at where to go next. I've neglected a lot of things during my masters and I'm looking forward to rediscovering myself and what I love.
That said I still love Autumn, and this year especially, the colder weather signals a big change in my life. I've come back down from York to be with my family, friends and boyfriend again, and I'm done with my dissertation and looking at where to go next. I've neglected a lot of things during my masters and I'm looking forward to rediscovering myself and what I love.
Thursday, 14 June 2018
MID YEAR RESOLUTIONS
I really don't know how we're halfway through the year. I know that's SUCH a cliche but honestly I still haven't recycled some of my Easter treat boxes, though that might just be me being a slob...
But I thought I'd take some time to reflect on how my 2018 goals are panning out, and consider what I want to think about and focus on over the next six months. My good friend Holly gave me the idea so shout out to her, and her adorable new blog which you can read and enjoy here.
Sunday, 25 February 2018
SCEPTICAL MAGICK // CRYSTALS
Crystals are something I've put off talking about for quite some time, mainly because when you engage with the topic of crystals, you tend to be shuffled into one of two camps. Camp one is the lady who accosts you in the New Age shops, draped in shawls and trying to convince you that this lump of orange calcite will somehow cleanse your kidneys. The second camp thinks that crystals are pretty rocks, and that's the end of it, and any claim of crystals having a bearing on your wellbeing is complete crock of shit.
I sit in a weird little camp in the middle, and very aware that both of these sides can respond strongly to anyone who seems to not align with their particular view of things, but I do also think exploring a middle ground is a useful exercise, and so here we go.
Friday, 19 January 2018
TIPS FOR A HEALTHY BEDTIME ROUTINE
Many people should be getting more sleep, and I am certainly in that camp. I suffer from a condition I'm calling brain-fires-up-the-second-the-lights-go-out-itus. I think a lot of people do. It's almost impossible to stop my mind from wandering when I'm lying down to sleep, and specifically wandering into places that make me anxious or stressed. I get to enjoy my mind scaling such terrain as 'worrying about the academic paper I turned in a week ago and am still waiting for the marks for' and 'what will I do with my life in the interim between my MA and a PhD?' and 'What if my family, boyfriend and all my friends secretly hate me and throw big parties together where they do nothing but talk about how glad they are that I'm not there?'
It's not fun but it's definitely not unusual, I think most of us struggle with it from time to time. I've recently begun to implement a routine in order to help me sleep better, which then means that I wake up rested and happy and enjoy my days more.
Thursday, 4 January 2018
2018 GOALS | BOOKS, WELLBEING AND WITCHY THINGS
H A P P Y N E W Y E A R !
I think a lot people are feeling a bit mentally burnt out from last year. I know that while I had a great year personally in 2017, there's this constant undercurrent of all of the horrible things that have been happening in the world. The leader of the free world is a raving man-child, my own country is becoming increasingly divided on whether someone's ethnicity is a factor in whether they count as a human being, and the planet is dying just a little bit more.
But personally 2017 really turned into my year. I left a job I enjoyed with lovely people, but that wasn't fulfilling me, for a postgraduate degree that has reawakened my ambition and drive. I went from being very single and very disenchanted with relationships to coming up to the one year mark with a wonderful person. I moved out of a horrible little flat in a town I had no real affinity for, and am now in a lovely apartment (with a functioning bathroom hooray!) in the gorgeous city of York.
I've become more independent, more politically aware and far more the person I wanted to be at the beginning of this year. It's not been without it's challenges, and of course the ever looming shadow of the collapse of moral society isn't fun, but with 2017 out of the way I'm going to indulge in a little optimistic goal setting.
I've become more independent, more politically aware and far more the person I wanted to be at the beginning of this year. It's not been without it's challenges, and of course the ever looming shadow of the collapse of moral society isn't fun, but with 2017 out of the way I'm going to indulge in a little optimistic goal setting.
Thursday, 28 December 2017
FAVOURITE READS OF 2017
2017 was an interesting year for my reading. For the first time in about four years, I didn't set a Goodreads goal. I wanted to see what my reading looked like when I wasn't aiming for a number, and I'm pretty happy with myself. I read thirty books, not including several unfinished books (reading specific chapters and sections for my classes) and some very short poetry pamphlets that didn't really count. I read some really great stuff this year, so I'm going to talk about my very favourite (non academic) reads from 2017. (Books that were sent to me by publishers will be marked with a *)
THE POWER* by Naomi Alderman - The Power essentially asks the question 'What if?': What if tomorrow, women around the world suddenly develop the ability to cause devastating harm at will? How would the world change? What would happen in places like Moldova where thousands are trafficked as sex slaves, or in parts of the Middle East where women are legally inferior citizens? What would happen in the Western world where some claim equality is almost achieved? The Power is an extraordinary thought experiment with a compelling narrative, and Alderman shows, by holding up a mirror image, the ways in which damage is done in our own lives when one group has all the power.
"However bad any man treated a woman, he needs her in a fit condition to carry a child. But now... one genetically perfect man can sire a thousand - five thousand - children. And what do they need the rest of us for? They're going to kill us all."
THE NATURAL WAY OF THINGS by Charlotte Wood - A group of women awake from a drugged sleep to find themselves prisoners in a compound, the middle of the Australian desert. Each woman's crime is her involvement in a sexual scandal with a powerful man. I won't pretend this is a happy book, it's an upsetting, creeping, festering novel that crawls into your brain and refuses to leave. Wood lets the camera roll on this raw, ugly little microcosm and creates a bleak and slightly absurdist extended metaphor, for the ways in which we are all victims of social structure, and often our own worst enemies.
"Would it be said they were abandoned or taken, the way people said 'a girl was attacked', this femaleness always at the centre, as if womanhood itself were the cause of these things? As if the girls somehow, through the natural way of things did it to themselves. They lured abduction and abandonment to themselves."
THE TIDAL ZONE by Sarah Moss - Moss is an author I had wanted to read for some time, and I'm so glad I finally got round to her. The Tidal Zone is a masterclass in writing about the huge significance of the small quiet moments. The story is ultimately about a family of four, living a quiet life in Coventry, having to come to terms with a traumatic event that disrupts one ordinary day. Moss' characters are all intricate, nuanced and so human. They all cope with this sudden upheaval in different ways, and Moss shows how strange it is for a family, going through difficulties, to suddenly be so visible in their local community. With a constant awareness of social issues throughout, this book was just exquisite, and I can't wait to revisit Moss in 2018. A Full review of The Tidal Zone is here
"Look mate, it's a job, the making of cakes and the washing of sheets, the coordination of laundry with PE lessons, the handling of the Christmas shopping and the girl's dental appointments, and the fact that your wife does it on top of her paid work without you noticing does not make you clever."
ALL THE BIRDS IN THE SKY* by Charlie Jane Anders - The last three books have all had pretty grim themes one way or another, but this book I read with a smile on my face almost the whole way through. A young witch and a tech genius befriend one another as children, part ways as they grow up, and must reunite as adults to save the world. If you don't want to read it, you're wrong. ATBITS is a lovely, silly read about the power you hold when you accept who you are. Plus I've just realised that the acronym of the title reads like '8 Bits' (a term relating to computer memory) which is actually very pertinent to the plot! Accidental or not, high five for you Anders! I won't pretend this book is especially well structured, or written, but for the sheer joy factor, it makes my top six.
"No matter what you do, people are going to expect you to be someone you're not. But if you're clever and lucky and work your butt off, then you get to be surrounded by people who expect you to be the person you wish you were."
THE FIFTH SEASON by N.K Jemisin - Coming into 2017 I had long fallen off the fantasy wagon. I had enjoyed Ship of Magic by Robin Hobb in April, but was becoming tired of the same tropes and worlds and characters with ever harder-to-pronounce-made-up names. The Fifth Season was like a breath of fresh air. So unapologetically different from the usual settings and characters, Jemisin's world is a scarred, tumultuous land, where a few feared individuals have the ability to wield the earth's power for better or worse. In a genre of worlds usually filled with mostly straight, white dudes on horses, Jemisin is having absolutely none of it, and presents a rich complex cast of characters that add texture and human interest, and represent a world of humans, rather than of archetypes.
"Tell them they can be great someday, like us. Tell them they belong among us no matter how we treat them. Tell them they must earn the respect which everyone else receives by default."
HOLD YOUR OWN by Kate Tempest - I've never been a poetry person, but over the last year or so I've begun to dip my toes in. Hold Your Own is kind of a collection, and also kind of one long sequence. It is based around a modern take on the myth of Tiresias, the blind prophet, who experiences life as both male and female, when he is turned into a woman by an angry Hera (for disrupting two snakes mating, which seems a bizarre thing to punish someone for but whatever Hera, you do your snake pervert thing.) The sequence has stand alone poems specifically about Tiresias, which are spaced around 'chapters' of poems titled 'childhood', 'manhood', 'womanhood' and 'blind prophet'. Full of classical and mythical references, social commentary and beautifully woven words, Hold Your Own convinced me that poetry might actually be my thing after all.
"And so, with face streaked warpaint red,
And every sense burnt white with pain,
He was give seven lifetimes
And dropped back down to Earth again."
Let me know if you've read any of these, and what your favourite reads of 2017 were! I'm looking forward to 2018 and another good year of reading so would love any recommendations.
Thank you for reading!
Saturday, 2 December 2017
SUSTAINABLE GIFT GUIDE
The first brand I want to highlight is Ara The Altar. It's founder Lauren creates stunning jewellery in intricate, minimalist designs.
Using recycled precious metals and biodegradable packaging, Lauren is one of many artisans choosing to value sustainability and integrity in their craft, offering products made to last a lifetime over cheap novelties.
Inspired by astronomy and nature, Lauren's pieces are perfect gifts for loved ones. They are keepsakes and statements of love.
Using recycled precious metals and biodegradable packaging, Lauren is one of many artisans choosing to value sustainability and integrity in their craft, offering products made to last a lifetime over cheap novelties.
Inspired by astronomy and nature, Lauren's pieces are perfect gifts for loved ones. They are keepsakes and statements of love.
Friday, 18 August 2017
HAPPINESS IS... SUMMER EDITION
Monday, 14 August 2017
CRUELTY FREE BEAUTY FAVES #1
I have been taking steps this year to completely switch up my beauty and makeup collection in favour of cruelty free products, and for me that means buying from brands that do not themselves test on animals, and are not owned by a parent company who tests on animals. It seems like it would be simple but navigating an industry where big heartless companies swallow up little companies with good intentions in the blink of an eye, or where animal testing can be worked in through all sorts of loopholes is tricky and often disheartening. But over the year I've found a few excellent products by excellent brands that are all fairly affordable and readily available, at least here in the UK, and I thought I'd share a few staples with you.
Sunday, 23 July 2017
HOW TO HYGGE IN HOT WEATHER
If, last Christmas, you went anywhere near a bookshop or the pages of a magazine or lifestyle blog, you'll know that the Danish art of Hygge (Hyu-Gah) was the big Winter trend, In case you were under a rock Hygge translates very roughly to a cosy comforting atmosphere and appreciating simple pleasures in life, and all the articles and books about achieving this blissful state recommend big log fires, cosy blankets, hearty soups and calming hot drinks.
Even though it was a massive marketing gimmick, I do really believe in embracing the Hygge lifestyle, and spent the winter surrounded by candles and soft throws, making sure I had a warm comforting space to come home to after a long day at work or out in the cold. But everything I saw in the Hygge lifestyle can be translated to a happy and calming summer, so I thought I'd share tips on staying hygge in the heat.
Even though it was a massive marketing gimmick, I do really believe in embracing the Hygge lifestyle, and spent the winter surrounded by candles and soft throws, making sure I had a warm comforting space to come home to after a long day at work or out in the cold. But everything I saw in the Hygge lifestyle can be translated to a happy and calming summer, so I thought I'd share tips on staying hygge in the heat.
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